Kindra and I have a really nice day planned tomorrow at Tanganyika Wildlife Park as well as shopping for fabric, hitting a couple bookstores, the library and a butcher shop. I am really excited at the prospect of spending time with my wife, it has been a long time since I had this feeling. She brought to my attention that she wanted this type of thing and I had not really thought about it in a long time. After our talk I realized that I had missed spending time with her so much and yet let it fall by the wayside as we “settled” in to our marriage and relationship.
We have also been talking about building a porch on the front of the house as well as repairing the fence and doing just general maintenance on the house that I have let go due to my obsession with things not real life related. The house has fallen into a sad shape and that is a dereliction on my part, which I plan to remedy as soon as humanly possible. Work first then play.
We have also been discussing finding other couples with which we can get along, that have no affiliation to the SCA, again keeping both her and I a bit more grounded in the real world. We have discussed also mini vacations to St. Louis, San Antonio, Denver, etc with Jennifer and Jason as a way to get out there and live life a little.
I have to admit, the prospect of all of this is a little exciting to me, maybe I am getting older, maybe I am growing as a person. But honestly, one can only be negative about life and down about the way things are for so long before you start to become jealous of those who embrace life and who take each day as a new beginning. I think that good things are on the horizon and know that now that we have discussed, things will continue to get better and better.
She is my everything, it is my job to make sure she knows that she is the most beautiful woman on Earth, that she is the most important thing in my life, and that there is nothing that I would not do for her. She moves me.