So sometimes in a relationship you must face adversity to move forward. My wife and I have always had a “let it be” relationship and apparently neother of us were really happy. Yesterday morning, it all came out in a very painful and very vivid argument. I spent the better part of yesterday concerned about things and last night when I got home, she told me she knew where I was coming from and that yes we needed some changes. After much discussing and laughing, a bit of crying, and a hug or two, we figured out together what the problems were, how to start working on them, and how to get to a place we should be in our relationship. This makes me incredibly happy.
So from this day forward, I promise to be much more mindful of my wife’s wants and desires. To listen intently to the things she says and een more intently to the things she may not say directly. It is up to me to be the best husband I can and to show her that SHE is the most important thing in my life and to show her herey day just how very much she means to me. She is my eveything and now is the time for action. A new dawn has come for me.
We also discussed religion. We are both pagan, I have been since I was 16, she has since she was about 25. We are not “good” pagans by any means, but we hope to change that. I am now looking for ways to get restarted in connecting with that part of me and sharing that with my wife. I cannot help but think this morning that the God and Goddess intervened and slapped me in the head with a very big hand to ensure I did not lose the one person in this world that was created just for me. I WILL FIND A WAY BACK TO THEM!